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Dialogue and Unity

22/2/2020

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A recent interfaith gathering in Birmingham celebrated the centenary of the birth of an amazing woman who might well one day be canonised as a saint within the Catholic Church.  That woman was Chiara Lubich, who was born in Trent Italy in 1921 and consecrated her life to God as a young woman of 22 yrs. in 1943.  Like nearly all founders of religious communities many young women were drawn to follow her way of putting the Christian Gospel into practice at a time when they were surrounded by violence, death and conflict.  They would meet in air-raid shelters during air raid attacks and eventually be the foundation stones of a spiritual and religious lay movement which would reach the ends of the earth and focus on fraternity and unity as its guiding principle. This movement, Focolare, is now present in 182 countries and more than 2 million people are affiliated to its work of spreading unity.  What is remarkable about this movement is that, while its foundations are Catholic, it includes among its membership people of other Christian denominations and faiths as well as people of no specific religion but who are inspired by the ideal of unity.

This call to unity is at the heart of many faiths, all of whom recognise the reality of the unity of the human race under God even if they do not always witness to it. Guru Nanak the founder of the Sikh faith overturned the distinctions between religions when he declared “there is neither Hindu nor Musselman” though,  in the 16th cy,  this led to the establishment of the Sikh faith and Mirza Husayn-Ali Nuri, the founder of the Baha’i faith and known as Baha’u’llah  advocated universal peace and unity among all races, nations and religions in the 19th cy. There’s no doubt that the world today needs this unity and it’s at the heart of the work of interreligious dialogue.  But it also needs a recognition of diversity and a respect for difference.  
  
Unity is not uniformity and we all have our own ways of being human and religious.  It’s so easy however, to retreat into our own ways of being human and religious and viewing others with suspicion and distrust. This leads to the building of walls rather than bridges, the isolation of groups, nations, cultures, religions; the viewing others as competition, looking out for our own advantage.  All this is obvious in the political climate of today. In spite of the World Wide Web our world seems as much if not more divided as ever.  We cannot afford to live behind our walls, having our view of the world skewed by the limits of the conditioning of our surroundings and culture.  

A great friend of the Focolare is Sheikh Dr Mohammad Ali Somali, Director of the International Institute for Islamic Studies who has known and lived the spirituality of the Focolare for more than twenty years. At the Birmingham celebrations he said, “Unity is more than dialogue. 'Dialogue' is no longer a good term when you reach unity. We are no longer in a state of dialogue with the Focolare. We are united. And through our unity we want to bring God first between us but also to the whole world."

I’m not too sure unity is more than dialogue, if by that we mean that we are friends with no need to talk about our differences or suggest they’re not important. There’s a danger that a lot of interfaith dialogue can be superficial, though if it engenders friendship then that is a good foundation for what must eventually come about – the more difficult dialogues about issues that are in danger of setting us apart from one another.

It’s possible to have a unity that doesn’t ever touch on controversial issues or differences in belief. For example it’s possible for Christians and Muslims, as with Jews, to dialogue about the unity of God which we all believe in but never discuss the Christian insight into the Godhead as Trinitarian or grapple with how this relates to Oneness.  It’s not so long ago that a Jewish friend was surprised when I said Christians believed in One God or would want to say the Shema, “Hear, O, Israel, the Lord our God is one”.  Unity which goes beyond a superficiality needs us to understand the other, where they come from, why they believe what they believe, stand in their shoes and understand what they believe, even being able to articulate it.  It’s also true for all the complex issues that living in a post-modern society throws up.  If we are to live together in society, build a home together, celebrate our unity as citizens and avoid an apparent unity that keeps us living side by side we need to continue to deepen a dialogue that helps us engage with one another and face our differences – not easy but essential if dialogue is to be a genuine contribution to unity

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A Beautiful Day....

9/2/2020

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​A  Beautiful Day in the Neighbourhood is a film which might get Tom Hanks an Oscar for Actor in a Supporting Role. Hanks plays the part of a well- known pre-school children’s TV producer and presenter called Fred Rogers who for decades wrote, produced and hosted a programme called “A Beautiful Day in the Neighbourhood” and was a great favourite with children and adults alike.  The film focusses on a reporter who, having been sent by his editor to interview Rogers is determined to get beyond his Mr Nice-Guy persona and search out his flaws and weaknesses. What happens in fact is that the roles are reversed and the reporter finds himself challenged by Rogers’ gentle questioning and is eventually reconciled with his father. The plot is, I think, fictional though Rogers was in reality interviewed by a reporter and was recognised as a truly nice and loving person who, while he liked people, loved those who were in trouble. This didn’t necessarily come easily. Rogers worked at it and there are hints in the film that he had to grapple with the inevitable tensions of life, finding ways of coping such as playing ‘bong, bong’ on the lower notes of the piano – something I might try myself sometime!   

For me the most significant moment of the film was a scene in a restaurant in which Rogers invites the  journalist to be silent for a minute and think of those who had loved him into (or perhaps it was in) life.  Not only did the restaurant go silent but so too did the cinema. I don’t think I’ve ever been to a film where that happened. The cinema was packed and people sat in silence for a full minute – no rustling of papers, no coughing or spluttering. Just silence - and the woman beside me could be seen brushing a tear from her eye. I’m sure everyone in the cinema was thinking of those who had loved them into life and responding in different ways.   

The story of the film was about reconciliation but it struck me that the work of Fred Rogers, who was an ordained pastor and saw his work as ministry, was about developing emotional intelligence in children through his programme and adults through his conversations and love.  There’s a scene in the film, taken straight out of one of Rogers’ TV programmes when he tries to put up a tent but fails miserably.  When asked why he didn’t get the tent put up before filming he replied that it was the failure to put up the tent that was the point of the programme. It was good for children to learn that sometimes things went wrong and that it was ok to ask for help. It so happens that the day after I saw the film I was in a situation of going to a show in a theatre where those attending were kept standing outside – in the cold and the rain – for an hour only to be told the show had been cancelled. I was still in the mood of the film so found myself quite unperturbed thinking “well, these things happen” though those around me were quite angry and one little family encouraged the children to boo and agitate to get inside. It was easy to imagine how Mr Rogers would have responded to that.

It seems to be a human trait to expect everything in life to go the way we want. Sometimes we’re disturbed by trivial events, sometimes by more serious events such as illness, death, loss of a job, the break-up of a relationship. These moments are a challenge and often raise the question why should this happen to me.  Rabbi Harold Kushner faced this head on when his son died. He grappled with it and wrote a book “Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People”. The answer was because they do. These events are part and parcel of what it means to be human and we need a certain amount of emotional intelligence to cope with them.  And it was emotional intelligence that Fred Rogers was teaching and developing through his television programme as well as the values of caring for our neighbour and neighbourhood which in this day and age is the very cosmos we live in.

It so happened that I’d been thinking of emotional intelligence after a dialogue event with two visitors who’d come to speak at Holocaust Memorial events in Scotland. Part of the dialogue was to discuss how we would respond to hate speech and hate action if we were to witness it. It occurred to me that conflicts, genocides, wars are often caused by hate, fear, suspicion – emotions often left below the surface and not acknowledged or understood. And because they’re not acknowledged they’re not managed positively or communicated effectively in ways to defuse conflict. It seems to me that emotional intelligence can well be part of the work of interreligious dialogue while recognising of course the part played by power and greed on the part of governments whom it behoves to keep groups in conflict for their own ends and outcomes. 

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    I am  a Catholic nun, involved in interfaith relations for many decades.  For me this has been an exciting and sacred journey which I would like to share with others.

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